Friday, May 23, 2008

Remembering Grandpa.....

William L. Consier is my favorite veteran. He was a very sweet man. He was also our maternal grandfather. He was born in Quebec, Canada and is of French/Scotch descent. I have fond memories of Grandpa. He was orphaned and lived with relatives after his parents died. Grandpa did not get along with his relatives. He was very stubborn and an independent thinker. At a young age Grandpa moved to the United States. He shined shoes in New York City and attended the opera whenever he could. Grandpa worked his way across the United States. Eventually he fought in WWI. He was injured and was sent to a Canadian hospital to recover. He met his wife, Honor, at that hospital. They married and had one child,a daughter named Norma. The family moved to Detroit michigan. Grandpa ran a lunch canteen outside the Ford Motor Plant.

Grandpa was a family man. His wife called him Billy. He adored her. On Sunday mornings, when they were older, he would bring toast and tea to her bed. His one flaw; he was very very careful with his money. One could say he was true to his scotch heritage.

When Ellen and I were young and our family was living in Overland Park, Grandpa loved to hold us on his lap and sing to us. He sang war songs like In the Navy, A Long Way to Tipperary, Praise the Lord and Pass the Ammunition etc. He also liked to sing the traditional songs of Scotland. We listened to I Love A Lassie,Bonnie Banks o Loch Lomond and other ballads. One favorite was a drinking song called A Wee Deoch-an' Doris. Grandpa would sing the chorus.:

Just a wee deoch an' doris
Just a wee drap, that's a'
Just a wee deoch an' doris
Afore ye gang awa'
There's a wee wifey waitin'
In a wee but an ben
If ye can say "It's a braw, bricht.
Moonlicht nicht,"
Then yer a'right, ye ken.

Grandpa would also sing Come Josephine in my Flying Machine. I can still hear him singing it in my head. A few years ago I was going through a rough patch. I dreamt that Grandpa flew a WWI plane close to where I was standing. He actually dipped the plane so that I could see him. Then he winked at me. That dream made me feel happy. I felt that we are not alone or forgotten.

There were times when Grandpa got older that I lost patience with him. I hope he forgives me. He did not deserve my rude behavior. I wish all his great- grandchildren and great great grandchildren could have known him. They would have known a fine man.

4 comments:

Fiddler said...

Ah I love stories about grandpa. The only song I remember him singing was My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean. He used to give me black licorice nibs and he smoked that cigar and would put a little mouth piece on it and let me take a puff once in a while. It is a wonder I don't drink and smoke, with grandpa's cigars and Dad giving me a "little" glass of beer at night. Ah memories of the dearly departed. But grandpa was a dear and I can still see him sitting on the front porch. Thanks for the walk down memory lane sister dear.

Honor Louise said...

I agree that Grandpa was a very decent, kind man. He has been on my mind. I forgot that Grandpa smoked a cigar. I don't think he ever offered me a puff. Grandpa used to give me,and possibly Ellen, a half glass of beer on Sunday. That was when he had Hilltop and we lived there. We drank our beer with our midday meal. (2:00) I liked Hamms Beer and Black Label. I can still remember kicking my legs under the dinner table while I drank my brew.I never got drunk. Lunch was always pretty substantial and we always had a big breakfast.

Katie Cramer said...

Honor, thanks for sharing your memories of our great grandfather. They are truly fascinating!

Right now, I'm reading Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides, and although it's a novel it depicts actual events that took place in Detroit during the 20th century. A Greek family is the focus of the story, and for awhile a father (and later, his son) run a bar/diner in Detroit. It makes me think of Grandma's folks.

Thanks for telling this story.

ellen said...

Hi Honor,
Thanks for the memories...I always thought the line was "just a wee jot with Doris"....thanks for clarifying!
EllenE